Nathan is on his 4th night in his big boy bed. The first night Nathaniel was gone at a scout dinner/cake auction and Nathan cried for 2 1/2 hours...no, I'm not exaggerating. He stopped literally 2 minutes before Nathaniel walked in the door. The next night I was gone at a RS activity and he cried off and on for 2 hours. He stopped 10 minutes before I came home. Last night our beloved friends Megan and JD came over to watch our kids while we went on a DATE!!! I felt bad for leaving them with our kids since Kate hadn't been accident free yet and Nathan cries for so long you start to lose sanity. I told them they could either keep him up and we would deal with him when we got home or they could just let him cry and ignore him. Megan took it as a personal challenge to get him to sleep before we got home (bless you, Megan, bless you!). She is a real live super nanny and every mother could learn some effective tips from her. She got him to sleep and he didn't even cry. Every girl needs a Megan. I will miss her dearly when we leave here. (By the way, Megan, I tried a similar approach today and it went much better. He barely cried!)
Today Nathan decided he wanted to try to go potty on the toilet like his sisters. As I was sitting folding laundry in the living room Nathan grabbed a pink princess pull-up and brought it to me. I had put a pull-up on him the other day after letting him sit on the toilet and he loved it. He looked SO cute in it and he felt like such a big boy. So, today when he brought it to me I figured why not? He looked adorable in his navy polo and pink pull-up. After a few seconds he poked at the front of the pull-up and I asked him if he needed to go potty. He nodded (remember he isn't real vocal) and I hurried him to the bathroom and put him on the little plastic potty. He sat there at actually peed! I was so excited I was yelling for Nathaniel to come and see and congratulate his son. He hobbled down the hall since his sprained ankle is still hurting. We all cheered and clapped and gave him treats. I think Kate doing her business today had something to do with her younger brother having success on the toilet at the same time she was potty training. I thought it was a fluke, but he kept pointing at his pull-up and I would run him to the potty but he never quite made it. He was very excited about it all day though. Then tonight he started pointing and I took him into the potty (which was in the kitchen...I know that sounds disgusting, but he can't open doors and when he points to the pull-up we don't have time to make it down the hall yet). I didn't think he had been successful so we put the pull-up back on. Later he wanted to try again and when I took him in, there was urine in the potty. I was surprised and really excited...until he hit it out of my hand and pee splattered all over the KITCHEN FLOOR! This is why we do not have portable potties in the kitchen. I was really mad then. It really negates the excitement when you have to clean up a big mess. I was still excited that he had gone, but I was honestly very frustrated (not to mention it was exaggerated by sleep deprivation). Nathaniel got Nathan ready for bed and I took my frustration out on the sack of potatoes that also were compromised in the accident. I know, that sounds ridiculous, but I have been trying hard to be more patient and keep on top of everything- housework, potty training, taking care of Nathaniel with his injured ankle, my calling, and the kids. I love it all and I am glad these transitions are happening, but usually they come one at a time. Oh, the joys of having kids close together!
3 comments:
Sounds exhausting and exciting all at the same time. Could have been worse... could have been me!!
Aww... you are too nice to me! It was beginner's luck. But it sure was fun to help you out!
I loved reading this post. It made me feel so... so... not alone. It also makes me feel like it is possible to have another child. Sometimes I feel like I have to have it "all-together" before having a third. It makes me feel good to know that I may never have it "all-together" and really, that's okay. I'm really glad I read this post today, as I was feeling rather lonely (Sam left yesterday for a business trip... a 3 week business trip).
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